In
his book called Chinese Students Encounter America, Qian Ning
is critical of what he saw among fellow Chinese students in
the United States:
Studying abroad could provide an opportunity
for radically broadening a person’s perspective on
life. In fact, however, most [Chinese] students lived very
confined lives. Frequently
they lived in the same place for several years. On campus they
met the same people, said the same things, and even bought
the same merchandise from the same stores. During holidays
the same families took turns hosting get-togethers. I spent
several Christmases [when American schools have a holiday period]
with the same people, but in different homes. The topics of
conversation were the same as those of the previous year, except
that the speakers could no longer remember what they had said
the year before and the listeners did not recall that they
had heard it before. [p. 138]
From this account it appears that many Chinese
students in the United States had less than satisfying social
lives. They deny themselves opportunities to improve their English and their ability to interact with Americans and people from other cultures. This can have negative effects on their academic performance, their possibilities for obtaining financial aid, and their prospects for internships and professional employment in the United States.
This
section offers ideas for those who want to avoid the mold Qian Ning
describes and have a more rewarding and beneficial experience
in the United States.
- Distinguishing features
of American campus life
- Special challenges
for Chinese
- Helpful social skills
- Learning
the helpful social skills
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